A Sacred Trust

 

Yesterday was Friday, and I went to jummah prayer with my grandson. The khutbah was about children as trusts from Allah. My heart squeezed a little when the imam said that children are Allah’s trust to us, but that they can be taken from us at any time. In fact, they are supposed to leave our care when they get old enough to start  their vocations and new families.  My five year old grandson was cuddled in my lap as I listened. I hated to imagine that he could ever be separated from me, but I also knew my relationship with him was nothing if not a sacred trust. My actions today and every day will put their mark upon him.

The imam continued. The point is that we must love our children and be active in their lives as they grow, and give them our wisdom, especially about matters of Islam.  This advice is nothing new.  Suddenly I was very thankful I’d come to jummah prayer.  I nearly stayed home. In going to jummah, and bringing my grandson, I showed him what I believe, and showed him what is expected of him.

When the khutbah ended, and we rose for prayer, I nudged my grandson to join his grandfather in the men’s rows, and he balked. He  knows he’s supposed to pray with the men, but I could not force him. Maybe the other sisters found fault with me; maybe they didn’t. My grandson jumped on my back as I made sujuud, and I nearly laughed, astaghfirullah, but I continued my prayer and ignored his antics. He’ll grow up soon enough , and face difficult choices as he carves his path. I need to give him the best of myself to take with him. I need to teach him many more things, including our religion.  Some people would say especially our religion. 

 

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4 responses

  1. What a beautiful story. The incident about your grandson jumping on your back when you prostrated brought back so many memories from my childhood! God bless you both.

  2. Thank you, Issam. Most kids can’t resist jumping on their parents (or grandparents) during sujuud, especially when they don’t get a reaction. Maybe this is Allah’s way of giving the child happy memories of being in the masjid before they are old enough to pray.

  3. assalamu alaikum sister.
    when i completed reading i was thinking of the same what brother issam commented……………exactly the same way he what he expressed.
    alhamdulillah,the most precious gift my father gave me was taking me to masjid when i was a child.

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